Oh you’re an entrepreneur I bet with your connections you would do well selling our product.

Let me add you to our Facebook group.

Me: Hmm, no thanks.

Adds me anyway.

So I remove myself.

Adds me again.

Removed again and block them from adding me again.

I get a chat message…”why did you block me from adding you, this opportunity is phenomenal, you are getting in on the ground floor, it’s going to explode.”

Me: well I dont want to be anywhere near it when it explodes.

You’re skeptical, well you should read all the testimonials.

Me: how about I don’t

Well you’re going to miss out.

Me: yes, I miss the five minutes I lost having this conversation

And they unfriended and blocked me.

Yup, this seems to be the new thing nowadays…

…pump your friends into your multi-level marketing scheme, then let them dump themselves out if not interested. 

After this incident I wondered how many other groups I had been added to…so I went into my Facebook account and looked.


Apparently I was shocked by how many groups I was added to and yet I wasn’t getting notifications or alerts from. Weird.

So I removed myself from 27 groups. 

I had been added to a weight loss group (okay I could probably afford to lose at least 15 pounds), a bearded man group (rarely have more than just facial stubble), a ping pong group (haven’t played in 20 plus years), some restaurant foodie group in Malaysia (never been to the country or the restaurant), how to write your first book group (oh, I’m so far beyond that with 20+ books now), a yoga group (I dont have the patience for yoga) and others that for the life of me I have no clue why I was added. 


I have no fear of missing out with these groups or for selling some product that doesn’t benefit me whatsoever. 

So missing out on purpose should be something you do regularly to keep you focused on what you really find important and to keep you focused on life. 


Rob is affectionately known as “Mr Sarcasm” to his friends - to everyone else he’s a Certified Digital Marketing Strategist, a Foremost Expert On Specialized SEO, a Best Selling Author, Podcaster, Speaker and Authority Broadcaster who can help amplify YOU to your audience. Rob has authored, coauthored or produced over 30 books covering social media, search engine optimization, podcasting, copywriting, personal injury law, weight loss, military law, life lessons, scams, customer service and more. His book clients include lawyers, speakers, doctors, real estate professionals and more. Rob is also host of The E-Heroes Interview Series available on Apple, Amazon, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify & many other podcast channels. Rob works inside corporations across the globe, helping companies generate new revenue and capture online business. Rob is also available to share talks and give interviews. To learn more and to get started visit www.AnspachMedia.com or call Anspach Media at (412)267-7224 today.