If you go to someone’s social media personal or business page and all the posts are glossy images, professional photos and videos that just scream “look at me”…that’s a clear indication you are dealing with a narcissist. 

So if you are a narcissist but don’t want to give the appearance as such then I would suggest you mix up your posts with…

  • some raw unedited videos,
  • non-professional photos,
  • and eliminate the “look at me, look at what I’m doing, look again” type of posts.

Why do I suggest these tips?

I’ve dealt with many entrepreneurs over the last decade who think they are “the bees knees”, “the cat’s pajamas”, “all that and a bag of chips”, “the gift sent from above” and let me tell you once they allow their narcissistic tendencies to infiltrate their social media platforms, their engagement will tank.

So what do these narcissists do?

They pump out more posts that scream “hey over here, look at me”. Instead of posting once a day, they are posting 2, 3, 4 or more times a day to get people to pay attention to them.

Everything has to be perfect for them. The posts need to show only the good things, and they have to be finely crafted.

That’s not how social media works, not at all.

I helped a client a few years ago and all the posts that went viral, that had the most impact on his business were raw, rough cut videos, pictures and articles that showed people the benefit of his services and what they could expect as a result. My client made millions in sales, but wasn’t happy because the images, videos and posts weren’t polished and professional.

So, the client and I parted ways and he turned over the social media to someone who said “YES” to all his wishes. Within a month the engagement was down 30%. Over a 90 day period the overall engagement had dropped 50% over the prior 90 days. Over the next year the engagement continued to fall. It was now off 90% from the year before.

Imagine a page with over 30,000 followers and only getting 8-10 likes per post, no comments and zero shares. When a year prior that same page was getting 80-100 likes, 20-30 comments and dozens of shares. All because the posts had to be a certain way to appease the narcissist in charge.

Again if you don’t wish to give the appearance of being a narcissist, then change up how you appear to others in your social postings.

Rob is a Certified Digital Marketing Strategist, a Foremost Expert On Specialized SEO, a Serial Author, Podcaster, Speaker and Authority Broadcaster who can help amplify YOU to your audience.Rob's the author of "Social Media Debunked", "Share: 27 Ways To Boost Your Social Media Experience, Build Trust and Attract Followers" and "Lessons From The Dojo: 101 Ways To Improve Your Life, Business and Relationships", "Rob Versus The Scammers: Protecting The World Against Fraud, Nuisance Calls and Downright Phony Scams" & "Rob Versus The Morons: Overcoming Idiotic Customers With Wit, Sarcasm and A Take No Bullshit Attitude" and the coauthor of "Optimize This: How Two Carpet Cleaners Consistently Beat Web Designers On The Search Engines", "The #AskDrA Book Series: Easy & Practical Answers To Enjoying Life As A New Sleever", "No Experience Necessary: Social Media For The Boomers, Gen X-ers & The Over 50 Entrepreneur" and "Power Guesting: Insider Secrets To Profit From Being A Great Podcasting Guest" and contributor to "The Wise Guys Copywriting Handbook".Rob has also produced books for other clients including lawyers, speakers, doctors and real estate professionals.Rob is also host of The E-Heroes Interview Series available on Apple, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify & many podcast channels. Rob works inside corporations across the globe, helping companies generate new revenue and capture online business.Rob is also available to share talks and give interviews. To learn more and to get started visit www.AnspachMedia.com or call Anspach Media at (412)267-7224 today.